Tip 1: How to protect yourself from violence

Unfortunately, forced to put up with violence, both adults and children in modern society often enough.Moreover, a similar phenomenon can be encountered not only in the streets but also in the family and in schools.We can not tolerate such conduct in relation to themselves, defend and fight for their rights.
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Teach your child to know and assert their rights, not to allow violence manifestations either with other children or with teachers.Introduce them to the basic documents that protect their integrity: the Family Code, the Criminal Code, the Convention on the Rights of the Child.Prompt children that we should not remain silent about the physical and psychological violence, rendered to them.They need without fear or delay all tell their parents.
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Tell the children that they can not go anywhere with strangers that they would not have promised.They need to know that these people will even call the parents' names and refer to them.Advise your child in such situations immediately
call back to you and report on the situation.
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If you are afraid of committing violence towards you in a public place, try to avoid situations that contribute to this.Do not go back home late at night alone, be sure to ask to meet you.Avoid dark streets and subways.Do not go to the staircase or the elevator with a stranger, better skip it and go forward to the next elevator.
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Do not drive the car to a stranger, even if it seems to you a pleasant and open person.In the case of the urgent need to quickly get to the house, it is better use of the official calling a taxi.Moreover, it is necessary to write down license plate number and call a loved one with a warning about your trip right in the presence of the driver.
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If you still encounter in a deserted place with aggressive mood, do not show him her fear and confusion.Keep calm and try to negotiate, tell him that you met in the case of absence will be looking for.Do not fight for the safety of things better think about saving his own life and health.However, try to remember the offender's appearance to later facilitate the work of the police.
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Try not to provoke their behavior and appearance causing the offender, even when returning home late.
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not open the door to strangers do and teach it to the children, and, of course, do not let strangers into his apartment.

Tip 2: How to protect children from violence

corruption of children, peer bullying, humiliation by teachers - is a reality that can face any child.The task of parents - not to miss the slightest symptoms such emerging issues.
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increasingly talking with children interested in what happens in the kindergarten or school.How are the child's relationships with teachers and peers.Alert, if a child talks about unfair treatment of teachers, the permanent fights at school.It is possible that a child may soon become a victim of such incidents.
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Keep in touch with teachers.Apathetic parents are able to untie the hands of violence and abuse.Keep an eye on the mood of the child.If he suddenly became withdrawn, irritable, coming home with bruises, writing off this is accidental injury, find out what might be causing this behavior.Talk with the child's classmates and friends will get a clearer picture than a clarification of the circumstances in adults.
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Watch what Internet resources visited by the student.Teens are often victims of their new friends on the social networks.Explain that it is impossible to predict who is sitting on the other side of the monitor.Prohibit or restrict access (this can be done by using, for example, antivirus software) to adult resources.
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Do not allow children to go to school or from school by unfrequented roads.Meet the child when he comes back alone late at night on a dimly lit street.Younger students are more inclined to trust strangers.Carelessness and gullibility against strangers are not allowed.Reminds us of this.Good help in the formation of the correct attitude to strangers or unfamiliar people will play possible situations.Help your child come up with different reasons for refusal to go somewhere with an adult: "I was waiting for my mother.I have called her, I have to go, and it will worry "," Grandma always scolds me if I stay ... "" I used to walk along this road on foot "(in response to the invitation to drive)," Mama Ibuy ice cream "(if offered refreshments).
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Nurture a child's confidence and ability to stand up for themselves and others.Most victims of violence are weak, insecure children.More often praise and encourage children.Try to be his friend, with whom you can share any problems and fears.

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