In fact, if you think about it justed abuse - not just unethical.It is also an expression of contempt for the opinion of others.So why can not swear?
known that abuse can be used for expressing emotions (in the case of failure, in a conflict situation and so on), and for ligament words.In the second case, swear words are often "patch a hole" in the vocabulary.If it is poor, there are "well", "short", and if the person still rude - even cursing.People are so accustomed to the mat, that sometimes it becomes a harmful habit, get rid of that is not easier than, for example, to quit drinking or smoking.
If a person without a
mat can not, it means that he has any complexes, he simply can not competently build his speech.But some swear so skillfully that it seems as if it has honed the art of man all his life.But in any case, listen to unpleasant foul-mouthed.
especially need to pay attention to his speech to people who have small children.Toddlers easily, literally "on the fly" grasp every word is repeated for mom and dad.Therefore, be careful what you say.Even if you accidentally hit with a hammer on a finger or slipped and fell, not the mother.
think in advance what you can say in such cases.After the mat is very easy to replace in the interjections, which abound in the Russian language.Watch out not only in the absence of abusive words in the speech, but the purity of the language as a whole.Let there be no words-parasites, different jargon.Make it a strict rule.
But if the child is "offered" a bad word from kindergarten or school, you must immediately talk to him sternly but softly enough.Explain to your child that swear ugly.Give examples of when the swear words and expressions summing the people, put them in an unpleasant position.
There are also cases when the child hears somewhere a dirty word, and asks parents to explain its significance.Tell us what this word speaks only bad people who want to hurt someone.If you explain everything gently and correctly, most likely your children will not want to eat in communion with you and with peers words that do not serve as an ornament of the great Russian language.