Guide
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The conclusion: not to lose the friendship and not suffer financially, now just need to possess the ability to refuse to lend.
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refuses to give in debt very unpleasant, but you can survive it.It is important to give up so that a person who asks you a loan, you have not been hurt or humiliated.You should not reproach a man ask for in debt also very defective for self-assessment.Take some tips: - If you have no money himself, do not hesitate to admit it.The phrase "I'd love to help, but I have a very no" would not hurt asking in debt man and you it would be easy to say (if true) - you can tactfully explain
that the amount of money that asks you for a comrade,you need for important things, or that you have already decided to help this amount to another person, such as parents - a man who not timely returned to you prior debt or did not return it at all, you can tactfully reminded of his carelessness - then the problem will disappear by itselfa - if a person asks you for the first time, you can refer to the life principle that you never ask yourself and do not give to others in debt ; - a person who constantly asks for money in debt , and there are quite a few, it is worthteach a lesson.In response to his request to ask himself in debt .Then he will understand that you have no money and feel in your place.
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If you do decide to give money to debt , then be prepared for the fact that even the most honest debtor may delay debt on time and do not give you the amount borrowed.Wisdom says: "Give your hands - take away their feet."Remember that giving in debt , you provide yourself with additional efforts.