Watch your speech.Determine what words irritate you when communicating and which are not like your interlocutors.Do not rush and make sure it always ends your conversation as you would like it.Check for yourself, where conversation becomes difficult to communicate and uninteresting.
Watch how we build our other people.Often, if you want to humiliate the interlocutor, some people try to use words and phrases that cause negative reactions in themselves.Your observations will allow you to adjust the power of his word, to understand exactly what turns of phrase used by your opponent.
work on them, and remove from your vocabulary expressions that you provoke a steady backlash.As a rule, these are the words and phrases that express instructions of negation, s
peculation, and the threat assessment.If you build your speech in a way to avoid the occurrence of irritating reactions, you get an opportunity to significantly improve relations when dealing with different people in different situations.
not use verbs in the imperative mood.Build your speech, using the most respectful and soft forms of expressions that reflect a request, not an order, or worse, the action with the color of violence, humiliation, etc.For example, your interlocutor will be much more pleasant to listen to "sit down" and not "sit down."
Remember that the other person is entitled to their own point of view.I do not mind trying to kill him, to express their views.Keep your words in check.In response to a strange, exciting or, conversely, is fundamentally false and absurd statements say nothing.So you can understand and quickly evaluate a new facet of the topic.
Keep in mind that not every dispute born truth.Intemperate man throws his words, as is often regretted later.In addition, it leaves a bad impression of yourself from your opponent.
Use templates phrases.There are times when you experience when communicating the excitement or just do not know how to behave with some people.In advance, make a verbal expressions, which, along with a "thank you" and "please" will allow you to keep the conversation going, not to offend the interlocutor, to align the conversation.Memorize them and use in everyday communication.